Fulfil Your Potential


Fulfil Your Potential

We teach Men how to drastically improve their lives through health, wellness, and personal development.

do any of the following statements resonate with you?

  • You are currently out of shape and unhappy with the way you look and are now ready to take action to transform your physique.

  • You've turned a blind eye to your health and wellness and now want to make it a priority.

  • Your relationship with your Woman feels stale and strained and you don't know why, but you want to learn how to fix it.

  • You struggle with Women in general and want to understand female psychology so that you can attract women and maintain a healthy relationship with them.

  • You feel like your masculinity has been suppressed by society and you want to learn how to reclaim your strength, assert your will, and live authentically in the world.

  • You're unaware of how you are perceived by the world at large, and now want to break the 4th wall and craft an intentional reputation that aligns with the Man you want to become.

  • You've pretended not to notice your bad habits and addictions and are now willing to face them head on and take the necessary steps to overcome them.

  • You’ve put your personal growth on hold for years, but now you’re ready to prioritise unlocking and fulfilling your highest potential.

thrive in the modern world

When you commit to your health and personal development, every aspect of your life will improve...

mitch & brandon

Born in Zimbabwe, raised in the UK, and now living with our family in Montenegro.Our mission is to show Men how to be a Man in todays world by embodying natural masculine ideals and spiritual awareness.By embracing both our human nature and also pursuing spiritual improvement, we can find harmony within us, and an untapped power that has long been forgotten, or is yet to be seen in the world.

the spalding family

Our family is our greatest strength, united by a shared vision for the future. Together, we are all dedicated to the mission of helping others.

international mma fighters

Between us, we have competed internationally in MMA, Boxing, Kickboxing, Wrestling and BJJ.We've won fights, lost fights, and even had to compete against each other.Fighting allowed us to develop our strength of character, knowing we have the courage to step into the cage and battle other capable Men in hand to hand combat.The physical and mental growth that happens from becoming combat effective is one of the most fulfilling and empowering feelings a Man can experience.

social salsa dancers

Learning how to dance gave us the same ROI as learning how to fight, for different reasons...In martial arts, we became combat effective, connected with other masculine Men, developed our strength of character, and gained respect for ourselves and from others.In dance, we learned an invaluable and timeless life skill, met and interacted with beautiful Women in a wholesome way, and developed extreme confidence in ourselves by learning how to lead a Woman on the dance floor.Together, fighting and dancing serve as the Yin & Yang for Men, seamlessly combining the masculine and feminine for maximum personal growth...

montenegro retreats

We host Men to stay with us in Montenegro and experience a one-of-a-kind lifestyle that we have consciously curated for our health and personal growth.We immerse Men in our Way of life, a Way that has physically, mentally and spiritually transformed us and given us unshakeable confidence and immense self belief, knowing exactly who we are, what we believe in, and where we are going in life.Our mission is to instill this same confidence in other Men, so they can lead meaningful and fulfilling lives that they love and continue to get stronger, healthier, more attractive, more confident, and more successful with each passing year.If you, your son, or any Man you know is lacking direction, clarity, and purpose in his life, send him to us and he will leave a transformed Man.

the compound

Deep within the mountains of Montenegro, we plan to build a Compound where we, as a community united by shared values and purpose, will gather, grow, and thrive.This Compound will embody harmony and strength, with spaces designed to cultivate body and spirit alike.From an open-air training ground & combat area, to serene Zen gardens & an organic pool, the Compound will serve as a Sanctuary for modern Men.Together, we’ll follow a Way of Life that aligns with nature and our highest aspirations.

core Beliefs

Our core beliefs represent how we ought to move through life as Men:

  1. Self-Improvement: The greatest pursuit a man can undertake is a relentless commitment to his own growth and self-mastery. To become the best version of himself is to honour his highest calling.

  2. Natural Lifestyle: True health for the mind, body, and spirit comes from living in harmony with nature. By embracing natural foods, materials, and processes, we align ourselves with the purity and vitality that God intended.

Guiding Values

These represent our most dearest values that determine how we make decisions:

  1. Faith: Trust in something greater than yourself, and find peace in surrendering control over outcomes.

  2. Beauty: Create, appreciate, and preserve what brings harmony and inspiration into your life. Seek and nurture beauty in both the world around you and within yourself.

  3. Simplicity: Appreciate clarity and minimalism in life. Focus on what truly matters by removing excess and distractions. Choose quality over quantity, and seek a grounded, intentional way of living.

  4. Family: Prioritise deep care, loyalty, and connection with loved ones, whether by blood, bond, or chosen kin. Become part of a supportive community where you can find trust, love, and belonging.

  5. Authenticity: Live true to yourself, expressing thoughts, beliefs, and emotions without pretence or exaggeration. Be genuine, sincere, and consistent with your inner values and external actions. Authenticity requires a deep understanding and acceptance of who you are.

masculine virtues

These virtues represent qualities and traits that are most desirable in a Mans character:

  1. Integrity: Your word is your honour.

  2. Courage: Embrace discomfort.

  3. Adaptability: Be who the moment requires.

  4. Reason: Rationality is Mans compass; let it guide you wisely.

  5. Open Mindedness: Curiosity opens doors to limitless possibilities.

  6. Contentment: True peace comes from within, not external circumstances.

  7. Detachment: Freedom lies in releasing what’s beyond your control.

  8. Gratitude: Everything is aligned in your favour; embrace it gratefully.

  9. Self-Control: Mastery over yourself is true power.

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This button reveals transformative insights, life lessons, and universal principles that will shift your perspective and guide you on your path to self mastery. Use it wisely...

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There are no coincidences.

Everything that happens in life has purpose, even if it's not immediately clear. Every event, encounter, and experience is interconnected, driven by a greater sense of fate, destiny, and universal alignment.Synchronicities are not random but part of a larger meaning or path.See the patterns and signs that are unfolding in your life. Embrace them, learn from them, and let them guide you.

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belief makes things real.

Belief is a powerful force that makes things real for us. What we believe may not necessarily be true, but it has the power to shape our reality.When a child believes in Santa, he becomes real in the child's reality, and that shapes the quality of his life.What we believe becomes real, so choose to believe in things that will add to your life, not take away.I’d rather live in a world filled with magic and miracles; therefore, I believe it. It now becomes true for me, and that’s the world I live in. It’s a much more desirable place to be than living in a world without them.Choose to believe in what serves you, and it will become your reality.

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your attitude determines your reality.

If you want something to be better, change your attitude, not the external circumstance.

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beauty is the measure of health.
health is the measure of beauty.

Beauty and health are two sides of the same coin. You can't have one without the other.When we look upon something beautiful, we are witnessing it in its most balanced, healthiest, and flourishing state.Therefore, seek beauty in every aspect of your own life, and you’ll embody your highest vibrational self, reflecting health and vitality.

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You are the product of the people you spend your time with

If you want to become a millionaire, surround yourself with millionaires.If you want to become enlightened, surround yourself with people who are enlightened.If you want to become poor, surround yourself with poor people.

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FACILITATE YOUR ENVIRONMENT

Imagine you have a sapling you want to grow into a flourishing tree...If you plant it in the wrong spot - where there's not enough sunlight, too much rain, or no protection from the wind - the plant will surely die.For the sapling to become a tree, you need to manipulate its environment so that everything works in favour of its growth (soil, climate, water, wind, sunlight).The same goes for Men and their success (or failure)...If a Man is surrounded by others who neglect self-improvement, lives in an untidy home, and works a job that prevents him from getting adequate sleep, he's fighting an uphill battle. His environment is working against him.However, if a Man can facilitate his environment so that his ONLY choice is to grow, then he will succeed.For example, if I want to ensure that I only take cold showers, I could physically remove the hot tap so my only option is now cold.If I want to eat healthily, I could not keep any processed foods in my home.If I want to sleep on the floor, I could get rid of my bed to leave myself with no other option but the floor.Do you understand?You're essentially simplifying the process of choosing to do "something" by manipulating your environment to strongly encourage that specific choice.This is what it means to facilitate your environment, and it is one of the MOST important concepts to understand if you want to take control of your life and ensure your own success.

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how to attract your woman

Men must have a mission (purpose) in life.When you pursue this mission, your woman will naturally be drawn to you in some divine way...There has NEVER been a heroic story book where the main characters whole mission was to "pick up chicks" like lots of people advocate for in this modern world...They had a STRONG mission that they set out to accomplish.And along the way they found their woman through the pursuit of this mission.The woman IS NOT the mission.Chasing women is a form of escapism.You are escaping from pursuing your REAL purpose to try and get some short term pleasure.Long lasting, meaningful relationships are what matter in life.When you are aligned with your purpose and living true to it, your woman will find you.No need for PUA.
No need for clubbing.
No need for dating apps.
Pursue your purpose in life and your woman will find you.

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polarity

Everything That Happens Is God’s Will: Every event in life unfolds precisely as it should, guided by a higher purpose. Trust in the wisdom of divine order, for all things work together for a greater good
Find Your Family: A strong, supportive community is essential for a fulfilling life. Surround yourself with those who uplift, challenge, and strengthen one another. True growth is found in unity.Embrace Your Masculinity: A man must honour both his ego and his nature. His body, given to him by God, is not something to reject but to nurture. It is his responsibility to embrace his masculinity, fully understanding its power and purpose.Light vs. Dark: Light and dark are inseparable forces in the world, constantly in battle. We strive to align ourselves with the light in every thought, action, and decision, knowing that in this, we fulfill our higher purpose.

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the words that follow "i am" follow you

The words we choose after "I am" set the tone for our identity and personal narrative. When we declare, "I am confident," "I am resilient," or "I am weak," we aren’t just describing ourselves in the moment—we’re shaping how we see ourselves, how we act, and even how we respond to life’s challenges. These words reinforce or challenge our beliefs, which ultimately become part of our habits and behaviour.In this sense, each "I am" statement functions as a self-fulfilling prophecy. Positive declarations—like "I am capable" or "I am resourceful"—support a mindset that looks for solutions and remains steady in the face of obstacles. On the other hand, negative or limiting statements, such as "I am not good enough" or "I am unlucky," create self-doubt, reinforcing a sense of helplessness or inadequacy.By consciously choosing empowering words after "I am," we can shape a more constructive self-image. This concept highlights the responsibility we have over our own narrative, encouraging us to use language mindfully to set a foundation for growth, resilience, and self-acceptance. In a very real way, the words we speak to ourselves create a path we’re likely to follow, impacting both our actions and our direction in life.

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saving vs spending

If you find yourself with more than $500 sitting in your bank account, chances are you will struggle to get rich.Its a bold statement but I will explain my idea...Many individuals, upon receiving lump sums, often lack a clear strategy for spending and resort to stashing it away, labelling it as an "emergency fund."In theory, this seems like a reasonable decision, but in reality, it just indicates a lack of knowledge on how to allocate these funds effectively.Growing your wealth demands active investment, not passive saving.Relying solely on saving is a slow path to wealth that will take decades.To accelerate your financial growth, you must proactively seek out new ways to spend it. It's essential to gain experience from using your money, and to learn from the results.Having a scarcity mindset, clinging to every penny out of fear, manifests the wrong outcome.And modern Men, driven by a low-risk tolerance, often find themselves stuck here.Regardless of clichés, significant personal growth lies beyond the comfort zone, and the greater the risk, the greater the reward.And what you’ll soon find, as you begin to take risks and gain experience in spending and investing, is that the risk factor diminishes over time.Each venture educates and sharpens your financial mind, increasing the likelihood of success over time.

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God exists

Imagine a world within a storybook—a place of vast landscapes, intricate lives, and endless mysteries. The characters within its pages live and move, entirely unaware of the hand that wrote them into existence. To them, their world is complete and self-contained; they see the sky, feel the earth, and live by the rules they know, never realising that every detail, every event, every turn of fate, was imagined and set in motion by an unseen Author.The characters ponder their origins, searching for answers in the only places they know, looking outward into the vastness of their world. But no matter how hard they search, they cannot reach beyond the boundaries of their story. They are confined to what they can see, touch, and understand. Yet the Author exists outside their reality, weaving meaning and purpose into each page, guiding each life and scene with intent.Now imagine we are those characters. Our world, like the storybook, seems whole and complete. We explore it, marvel at its complexity, and wonder about its purpose, often forgetting that something—or Someone—must have written it all. Though we cannot reach past the “pages” of our existence to see the Author directly, our world’s intricate design, beauty, and order point to a Creator beyond it.In this way, our lives are an unfolding story, each moment guided by a hand we cannot see. We may be unable to cross the boundary of our reality to meet the Author, but the existence of the story itself is the proof—an ever-present reminder that beyond what we know lies the Source of everything.

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Peace comes from within

"The only Zen you find on the tops of mountains is the Zen you bring up there."

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These are the five realms of meaningful self-improvement.

1. strength of character

Your Strength of Character is what ultimately defines you as a Man. It represents the values you hold and the code you live by. By developing your Strength of Character you will experience the following:

  • Deep Self-Belief & Authenticity

  • Clarity of Purpose & Direction

  • Mental Toughness

  • Larger Risk Tolerance

  • A Sense of Meaning, Purpose, & Fulfillment

  • Overcoming Limiting Beliefs & Self-Doubt

  • Meaningful Responsibility

  • Complete control over your Emotions

  • A Life Free from Bad Habits and Addictions

Building strength of character empowers Men to rise above the moral decay of society, becoming beacons of Light.It is the foundation upon which a Man builds his legacy, leaving a lasting impact for future generations to emulate...

2. physical prowess

Physical strength and capability command respect and influence to this day, and it is a foundational element of masculinity.From a primitive perspective, the strongest and most physically capable Men were seen as the most admirable and worthy of respect.In order to fulfil your masculine potential you must:

  • Develop a well-rounded and hyper-functional physique

  • Enhance your Combat Effectiveness

  • Promote Health & Vitality in the body

3. spiritual evolution

Spiritual Evolution means to nurture a profound connection with yourself, Nature, and the Divine.It's a journey of self-discovery, Faith, and Understanding the world around you.By pursuing spiritual development you can attain:

  • Deep Self-Awareness

  • Inner Peace

  • Wisdom

  • Gratitude

  • Connection with something greater than yourself

4. physical presence

Your physical presence is how you present yourself to the world.
By improving your overall image you will master the following:

  • Body language that authentically reflects your masculine essence.

  • Optimise your attractiveness by enhancing your natural strengths and neutralising any weaknesses.

  • Craft a style that embodies your authentic self.

  • Find your true resonant voice that compels the world to listen.

In mastering these elements, you will develop an aura that naturally draws people to you and opens doors to new opportunities.

5. women

Masculine and feminine energies are two sides of the same coin; you cannot have one without the other. They represent two ends of a spectrum, working in harmony to create balance and wholeness. To fully embody your highest masculine energy, it is essential to understand and integrate the feminine energy as well.Without this understanding, you may find yourself lost or isolated, struggling to connect with the Women in your life.By learning how to engage with the feminine energy, you develop emotional intelligence and effective communication skills—qualities that will enhance all of your interactions and relationships with Women.Recognising the importance of these dynamics enables you to operate at your highest masculine potential, leading with confidence and authenticity.

Personal Training

We will teach you how to sculpt a strong, healthy and aesthetic physique.How we can help you:

  • 1:1 Coaching: Train with us and get in the best shape of your life.

  • Custom Workout Plan: We can create an optimal workout routine that is tailored to your specific lifestyle and goals.

  • Bulking & Cutting: Learn how to bulk and cut in a healthy way depending on your needs.

  • Physical Prowess: Learn a combination of calisthenics, strength training, strongman techniques, and functional movements to create your most all-rounded, capable body.

health & wellness advice

We will enable you to reach your highest level of health and wellness by helping you optimise your lifestyle to be all-natural, non-toxic and high vibrational.How we can help you:

  • Lifestyle Assessment: We will assess your current lifestyle and identify all of the ways you are unknowingly sabotaging your physical and mental health.

  • Custom Health Protocol: We will give you bespoke holistic solutions to your unique lifestyle that will allow you to:

  • Drastically Increase Vitality and Longevity

  • Detoxify Your Body

  • Heal Health Problems Naturally

  • Enhance Mental Clarity

  • Boost Energy Levels

  • Improve Skin

  • Reduce Stress and Anxiety

  • Increase Natural Attractiveness

  • Strengthen Immune System

  • Still the Mind & Reset Attention Span

  • Improve Sleep Quality

  • Live in Harmony with Nature

guided cold exposure sessions

Cold exposure is a powerful practice that challenges both your body and mind, building resilience, boosting health, and increasing mental toughness.How we can help you:

  • Guided Cold Therapy Sessions: Immerse yourself in cold water or ice baths under our supervision.

  • Breathing Techniques: Learn controlled breathing methods to manage the stress response and stay calm under pressure.

  • Mindset Coaching: Develop the mental strength to embrace discomfort and build confidence in your ability to adapt.

  • Health Benefits Overview: Discover the plethora of cold exposure benefits, from improving circulation, boosting immunity, enhancing recovery and more.

martial arts classes

We will teach you how to become combat effective through striking, grappling and reconnecting you with your divine masculine spirit.Once you become combat effective, you will develop extreme self-confidence, gain respect for yourself and from others, and you will feel a deep sense of fulfilment from living in alignment with your masculine nature.How we can help you:

  • 1:1 Martial Arts Sessions: Get in great shape and learn how to fight.

  • Increase Testosterone: Immerse yourself in a masculine and high testosterone environment.

  • Reconnect with Your Primal Masculinity: Tap into the healthy masculine energy that has been suppressed for most of your life.

cuban salsa lessons

We will teach you the basics of cuban salsa dancing.Once you know the basics, you will drastically increase your self-confidence, unlock a timeless life skill, and know how to lead beautiful women on the dance floor.How we can help you:

  • 1:1 Cuban Salsa Lessons (Solo & Partner Work)

  • Experience the Relationship Between Dance & Self-Improvement: Understand why dance is so powerful for a Mans self improvement and how it will change your life.

Female guidance

Learn how to lead with confidence and authenticity in your relationships.How we can help you:

  • Female Psychology: Understand female nature and the fundamental differences between Men and Women.

  • Communication: Learn how to effectively communicate with Women.

  • Attraction: Learn how to become naturally attractive to Women.

By learning how to engage with the feminine energy, you will develop emotional intelligence and effective communication skills—qualities that will enhance all of your interactions and relationships with Women.

Personal branding

Learn to present yourself to the world with power and authenticity.We’ll guide you in optimising your appearance and refining the way you carry yourself, both online and in real life, helping you build a reputation that truly reflects the Man you aspire to be.How we can help you:

  • Style: This is the first thing people will notice about you. Learn how to curate a stylish and holistic wardrobe that promotes long-term health and authentic personal style.

  • Attractiveness: This opens doors to lots more opportunities. Learn how to maximise your natural strengths and neutralise any weaknesses.

  • Body Language: Develop strong and commanding body language.

  • Speech: Create a strong, eloquent voice that resonates.

  • Social Media: Your social media is your digital shop front. It needs to reflect who you are and what you stand for.

  • Websites: Every Man needs a website. This is his digital business card that lets others know how he can give value to the world.

fees

Our flat hourly rate for any service is €50.We offer discounted rates when you purchase hours in blocks.

Block of 5 hours: €225 (€45 per hour) – Save €25
Block of 10 hours: €400 (€40 per hour) – Save €100
Block of 15 hours: €500 (€33 per hour) – Save €250

These options are ideal for those committed to their personal growth and who want to work with us consistently. However, you’re welcome to start with a single session to see if it’s the right fit before committing to a package.For the best results, we recommend three sessions per week, though one session per week can be effective depending on your goals.You have the flexibility to mix and match any of our services, tailoring them to suit your goals and preferences.


location

Our location is flexible to suit your needs. Depending on the services you’re interested in, sessions can take place:

  • At our residence in Lješevići, Montenegro

  • At your residence (within a 30-minute radius)

  • Worldwide via Zoom

We aim to accommodate you wherever you feel most comfortable.


contact

If you’re interested in working with us, please message Brandon on Telegram using the link below. Let him know which services you’re interested in, and we’ll help you take the next step.

This is a collection of insights drawn from my experience advising Men across multiple realms of life:

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