The Spalding Brothers Collective.A family-run lifestyle and personal growth venture dedicated to elevating the way men and women live.We build systems, experiences, and environments that refine every aspect of life... from exclusive lifestyle clubs and private mentorship to creative brand design and real-world services.Whether it’s refining your health, expanding your network, building your brand, or getting practical work done, our collective brings together expertise across personal transformation, craftsmanship, and holistic living... all under one refined, unified banner.

Montenegro

lifestyle clubs

our lifes work

Restoring divine order through an aligned culture of strong men & radiant women

We stand for the Light.For strength, beauty, and freedom...Rooted in what is ancient, intuitive, and aligned with nature.

FINAL FORM

MENS lifestyle club


Network. Growth. Timeless Skills. Masterclasses. Beautiful Women. High Stakes. Panoramic Views.For the select few who have the ability to live life like it's a storybook...

Circle of Grace

womens lifestyle club


The Circle of Grace is a private women’s lifestyle club devoted to grace, beauty, and divine femininity.Founded in Montenegro, it brings together women who seek to live with intention... blending social connection, spiritual growth, and the art of beautiful living.Through curated gatherings, workshops, and experiences, members cultivate harmony, creativity, and sisterhood while reconnecting with their natural rhythm and feminine essence.

Solutions for

building businesses

bring your idea to life

website building and aligned brand creation

Everyone needs a website.Whether you’re an artist, a coach, a business owner, or simply someone with something to say... your website is your base.It’s where people take you seriously.Social media comes and goes, but a website is permanent.It’s your digital home... your name, your words, your vision... all in one place.Most people never get around to building it.We make sure you do.And we make sure it’s done beautifully.

Our way of

giving back

super spalding bros for hire

Need an extra pair of hands for your project?

If you need something done... done right... you come to us.We offer reliable, capable, and discreet support for whatever you’re working on: moving, outdoor projects, event setup, seasonal maintenance, logistics, and more.We believe in helping our community the old-fashioned way... with hard work, respect, and a promise kept.When we take on a job, it’s not just about labour. It’s about trust, loyalty, and taking care of people who take care of us.

100 EUR / day minimum (covers up to 6 hours of work for one man)When our community needs a hand, we do what we can... quietly, professionally, and with pride.

mans best friend

get rugged

The only real solution for mens grooming...

Our

family

"Nothing changes the way we choose, if we choose to change nothing."

- Carl

"Your words create your world."

- Tiffany

"Every Man and Woman has a divine responsibility to cultivate Beauty in every aspect of their life."

- Mitch

"We believe that the Highest commitment a Man can make is to his own Physical, Mental, and Spiritual beauty, strength, and freedom."

- Brandon

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If our work has brought value to your life, you’re welcome to express your gratitude.

Get in touch

contact details

If you're interested in working with me, I encourage you to message me with your enquiry directly via any of the following methods:

For Wire Transfer Donations:

Account name: Brandon Spalding
Bank: Adriatic Bank
Account: 5800 2200 0000 1835 82
IBAN: ME25580022000000183582
Swift: AZMNMEPGAXX
Accepted Currency: EUR


For Crypto Donations:

BTC Address: bc1qwk8t7er7znm6yfkwjnqy7cvr5qr4phcmxjrrl7ETH Address: 0x7A33C6a369270C9F47cB5540b847d82e61bAf3AEXRP Address: 2raY8Tk1Edpq2HKCdnWgyLbxYWbc4v1xkQa


For Wise Transfers Donations:

Wise Tag: @mitchellconnors

Other ways to

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a roadmap for young men

the way of final form

For the Man who has awakened to the betrayal of the modern path and the lack of results it has given him.The Way outlines 40 intentional practices that will forge you into a Man worthy of respect.Once you begin walking this path, your life will never be the same again.

Magazines

A curated collection of literature, created by the Spalding Brothers, designed to elevate your growth...

Level up your...

Health. fitness. style

Sign up for exclusive 1:1 mentorship and achieve a total mind & body transformation.

bring your idea to life

website building and aesthetic brand creation

Let's bring your idea to life

  • Heavy Lifting & Moving

  • Property & Outdoor Work

  • Assembly & Installation

  • Event Setup & Logistics

  • Seasonal & Maintenance Work

  • Personal Assistance

  • And More...

100 EUR / Day minimum (covers up to 6 hours of work for one man)

Circle of Grace

womens lifestyle club

A sacred circle in Montenegro where radiant Women gather to remember the art of living beautifully...

Level up your...

Health. fitness. style

Sign up for exclusive 1:1 mentorship and achieve a total mind & body transformation.

Become the man you were
destined to be

Men's Training

Magazines

A curated collection of literature, created by the Spalding Brothers, designed to elevate your growth...

the location


This is not just a "website"...I am offering you the manifestation of your most sacred vision into a refined, living digital form.

my fees


Every Man and Woman I work with is unique, each asking something different from me. That’s why I don’t offer standard, one-size-fits-all pricing. Instead, I tailor my solutions to your specific needs.Engagements can range from 1 hour intensives, to intimate agreements that last several months.Alternatively, some Men and Women work with me exclusively online, or through text.No matter what challenge you’re facing, I already have a solution to it.

the spalding brothers


As Brothers, we travel the world in search of adventure... competing in combat sports, dancing with beautiful women, uncovering the secrets of our universe, and much more... all under the banner of FINAL FORM.You will find us at our Compound deep in the mountains of Montenegro, honing our skills, deepening our spiritual connection, and living by the Way of Final Form.If you're ready to embrace a life of Growth, Belonging, and Respect, then we openly extend our philosophy, and welcome you to join us on the pursuit of FINAL FORM...

the war on health


Learn how to win the war on your health and reclaim your strength, beauty, and divinity in the modern toxic world.

alpha aesthetic


Alpha Aesthetic: Discover the timeless principles to curate an undeniable physical presence...

sovereign strategy


The culmination of ALL of the questions and exercises we went through, that allowed us to achieve a remarkable level of freedom in our lives...

digital ghost


Digital Ghost is the ultimate solution for those seeking privacy, security, and anonymity online.Catering to beginners and experts alike, it offers three distinct levels, ensuring ease of use and the ability to implement its teachings at your own pace.With clear, step-by-step instructions, Digital Ghost equips you with everything necessary to reclaim your digital freedom in today's dystopian world.

the way


A simple, yet extensive pathway for young Men to follow that will build a strong foundation as they enter into Manhood.The Way outlines 40 intentional practices that will forge you into a Man worthy of respect.Walk the Way.Achieve Your FINAL FORM.

I realised that after all the love and support I had from my parents growing up, I had just left them to suffer back home while I went gallivanting in the marines.I could see clearly that as things were, none of them had a bright future ahead of them and no one was coming to save them.I decided right there that enough was enough. I would not abandon my family.I knew I was resourceful enough to figure out a way to turn everyone’s lives around, even if they didn’t know it yet. So I left the marines, moved back home and got to work.In the months that followed, I had strategically broken down every aspect of our lives and devised a plan that would take us out of the middle class bubble and allow us all to thrive.

2020 - present

thriving & giving back

That time together was a catalyst. I convinced our family to commit to a shared vision for our future.By the end of 2020 we sold everything—our cars, house, possessions—and made the bold decision to move to a new country, ready to start fresh.It wasn't all plain sailing to say the least, but four years later and I am proud to say that my family is now thriving in Montenegro.My Brother and I have an unbreakable bond, my Father works from his laptop, with one of the most beautiful views in the world as his backdrop, and my beautiful Mother is her healthiest, most highest vibrational self.Our story is far from over, but now that I’ve set things in motion for my family, I have the opportunity to share my strategic insight with the rest of the world…

More things about me:

  • I sleep on the floor

  • I've taken cold showers everyday for 3 years straight

  • I have a passion for beauty

  • I've competed in MMA internationally

  • I live an all-natural lifestyle

  • I found how to connect with my soul when I learned salsa dancing

  • Simplifying and seeing the big picture are two of my biggest strengths

  • I get called "intense" a lot

I have a solution to every challenge you currently face, thought to make it simpler, I have outlined the most common Five Realms that I guide Men in:

strength of character

Your Strength of Character is what ultimately defines you as a Man. It represents the values you hold, the way others see you, and the way you see yourself.

  • Deep Self-Belief & Authenticity

  • Clarity of Purpose & Direction

  • Mental Toughness

  • Larger Risk Tolerance

  • A Sense of Meaning, Purpose, & Fulfillment

  • Overcoming Limiting Beliefs & Self-Doubt

  • Meaningful Responsibility

  • Complete control over your Emotions

  • A Life Free from Bad Habits and Addictions

physical Prowess

Physical strength and capability command respect and influence to this day, and it is a foundational element of masculinity.

From a primitive perspective, the strongest and most physically capable Men were seen as the most admirable and worthy of respect. They occupied the top of the social hierarchy, enjoying access to the most desirable Women.In order to fulfil your masculine potential you must:

  • Develop a well-rounded and hyper-functional physique

  • Enhance your Combat Effectiveness

  • Promote Health & Vitality in the body

Spiritual Evolution

Spiritual Evolution means to nurture a profound connection with yourself, Nature, and the Divine.It's a journey of self-discovery, Faith, and Understanding the world around you.By pursuing spiritual development you can attain:

  • Deep Self-Awareness

  • Inner Peace

  • Wisdom

  • Gratitude

  • Connection with something greater than yourself

physical presence

Your physical presence is how you present yourself to the world.
By improving your overall image you will master the following:

  • Body language that authentically reflects your masculine essence.

  • Optimise your attractiveness by enhancing your natural strengths and neutralising any weaknesses.

  • Craft a wardrobe and style that embodies your authentic self.

  • Find your true resonant voice that compels others to listen.

In mastering these elements, you will develop an aura that naturally draws people to you and opens doors to new opportunities.

This is a collection of insights drawn from my experience advising Men across multiple realms of life:I could share my testimonials, but I'd rather let my work speak for itself. Testimonials are useful for those who prefer external reassurance to make decisions. However, I understand that high-level individuals prefer to assess the value directly and make their own judgment. I know, because that's what I do.